Monday, May 26, 2008

Sittin' round just thinkin'



This saturday Daniel and I were talking about milestones. We understand that babies reach milestones at different times but we were just wondering about them. Daniel decided that if the "sitting up by yourself "milestone happens around 6 mos, then at 5 mos we should be "practicing." So we took Max Milligan to the living room sat her up and tadaaaa, this is what we got. Now I understand that technically she is sitting up, but does it count if she's got her belly propped on her legs and that is how she is sitting up? Let's say yes! Congratulations for reaching another milestone,MM. Daddy and Mama love you, we are in love with you and you are a beautiful beautiful girl. You amaze us daily.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

A note to James Taylor

Dear James Taylor,
Here is a little story for you. A while back I bought my mother a wooden sign that says, "the only thing wrong with life is that there is no background music." We thought this sign was very funny, because my family is that odd breed of people who are so in love with music that we do have "background" music playing in our heads constantly. We wake up with a song in our heads and throughout the day, we are humming a variety of songs to ourselves depending on what we are doing at that time. There's some Loggins and Messina, a little Allman Brothers, Simon and Garfunkle, Nylons at times, definately the Beatles, of course Jimmy Buffet but above all there is you. There is one of your songs (or several) for every part of my life. I was rocked to sleep with "Your Smiling Face." I danced to "Up On the Roof" on the roof with my sisters. I rolled down my windows and sang "Country Road" at the top of my lungs driving home from college for the first time. I listened to "Something in the Way She Moves" and prayed for someone to feel that way about me. I know all the words to all the songs.
You were at my wedding. There was no cannon in D for me. Mothers and Grandmothers were seated to my mother's favorite song, "Your Smiling Face." My bridesmaids (and best friends) walked down to "You've Got a Friend." I did walk down to the Beatles BUT Daniel and I exited to "How Sweet it is To Be Loved By You."
When I found out I was pregnant, "Sweet Baby James" was playing in my head as happy tears fell. I waited for 40 weeks to rock my baby to your songs. She is five months old now and I cannot believe how much she loves music. One Man Band stays in the car. If the is getting the least bit grumpy about riding. It goes on and she settles down. We had a difficult couple of nights where she was fussy with her last bottle. I got out James Taylor greatest hits, put it on and what happened??? She turned her head and stared at the cd player, settled down, and took her bottle like a pro.
Music is such a huge part of my being. It is emotional and brings so much to life for me. It amazes me that already music can get her moving and laughing, it can calm her down. I pray that she will continue to grow in her love of music. That she will experience concerts and "shows" and opera and whatever else that will bring emotion to the table. I cannot wait to take her to her first concert. Who will it be? Looking forward to a little James Taylor time!

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Now I lay me down to sleep...

Every night, we do the same thing. We have a bottle while we rock. Then we get changed into our bedtime clothes. Then the little munchkin knows what is coming up and she starts getting excited. Her angel comes down and we have prayer time. Max Milligan starts smiling and cooing and kicking and reaching for her. She brings her down so that they are face to face and she just stares as if she is concentrating on the words that this angel is saying. I just love that she is learning that prayer time is a part of her day and a part of her little world.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

My Aunt Tookie sent a check to us and told me to buy Max Milligan something wonderful. I really did think long and hard about what to get, but when I saw this outfit the thinking was over. To me, this outfit embodies my aunt Tookie and all the Bethea girls. See, the Bethea girls grew up in Tatum, South Carolina and ventured over to Myrtle Beach for a little fun in the sun, dancing and the real beach music. I can just picture them laying out, playing on the beach, riding bicycles, flirting with the boys and maybe even surfing. So this dress is in honor of those Bethea girls, Blanch, Gene, Dot (aka Gmama) and Tookie. Thank you Aunt Tookie.
One thing that I have been thinking about is that I want Max Milligan to know her family. I mean KNOW them. I want her to meet everyone and if she can't meet them all I want her to definately know that they are out there. By showing her pictures, talking to them on the phone, and telling her stories about them. I am so grateful that my grandparents and parents and aunts and uncles and cousins have always been story tellers. I am glad that they have shared their life experiences with me so that I will be able to pass them on to Max Milligan. I pray that she will listen to these stories and learn things from them. Things to do and certainly some things NOT to do. I pray that she will know their losses and their gains, their heartaches and their loves. I pray that she will know their lives. Thank you to my family. All of them. I love y'all

Sunday, May 4, 2008

The going ons at the Davis home

Max Milligan sitting outside with
mama brushing Tilly

Daddy and Max Milligan
Mama and Max Milligan
Chillin at Loco's on a Sunday afternoon